“The beginning of love is to let those we love be perfectly themselves, and not to twist them to fit our own image. Otherwise we love only the reflection of ourselves we find in them.”
Love
“When ambition ends, happiness begins.”
HappinessAll Quotes by Thomas Merton
“By reading the scriptures I am so renewed that all nature seems renewed around me and with me. The sky seems to be a pure, a cooler blue, the trees a deeper green. The whole world is charged with the glory of God and I feel fire and music under my feet.”
God“We are so obsessed with doing that we have no time and no imagination left for being. As a result, men are valued not for what they are but for what they do or what they have - for their usefulness.”
Imagination“We have what we seek, it is there all the time, and if we give it time, it will make itself known to us.”
Time“Peace demands the most heroic labor and the most difficult sacrifice. It demands greater heroism than war. It demands greater fidelity to the truth and a much more perfect purity of conscience.”
Peace“Perhaps I am stronger than I think.”
Strength“Art enables us to find ourselves and lose ourselves at the same time.”
Art“The least of the work of learning is done in the classroom.”
Learning“Be good, keep your feet dry, your eyes open, your heart at peace and your soul in the joy of Christ.”
Good“In the last analysis, the individual person is responsible for living his own life and for 'finding himself.' If he persists in shifting his responsibility to somebody else, he fails to find out the meaning of his own existence.”
Life“When ambition ends, happiness begins.”
Happiness“Love seeks one thing only: the good of the one loved. It leaves all the other secondary effects to take care of themselves. Love, therefore, is its own reward.”
Good“If you want to study the social and political history of modern nations, study hell.”
History“A life is either all spiritual or not spiritual at all. No man can serve two masters. Your life is shaped by the end you live for. You are made in the image of what you desire.”
Life“Love is our true destiny. We do not find the meaning of life by ourselves alone - we find it with another.”
Alone“Death is someone you see very clearly with eyes in the center of your heart: eyes that see not by reacting to light, but by reacting to a kind of a chill from within the marrow of your own life.”
Death“The very contradictions in my life are in some ways signs of God's mercy to me.”
God“We are not at peace with others because we are not at peace with ourselves, and we are not at peace with ourselves because we are not at peace with God.”
God“Just remaining quietly in the presence of God, listening to Him, being attentive to Him, requires a lot of courage and know-how.”
Courage“The first step toward finding God, Who is Truth, is to discover the truth about myself: and if I have been in error, this first step to truth is the discovery of my error.”
God