“A healthy male adult bore consumes each year one and a half times his own weight in other people's patience.”
Patience
“That a marriage ends is less than ideal but all things end under heaven, and if temporality is held to be invalidating, then nothing real succeeds.”
MarriageAll Quotes by John Updike
“The Founding Fathers in their wisdom decided that children were an unnatural strain on parents. So they provided jails called schools, equipped with tortures called an education.”
Education“Existence itself does not feel horrible it feels like an ecstasy, rather, which we have only to be still to experience.”
Experience“Each morning my characters greet me with misty faces willing, though chilled, to muster for another day's progress through the dazzling quicksand the marsh of blank paper.”
Morning“The first breath of adultery is the freest after it, constraints aping marriage develop.”
Marriage“That a marriage ends is less than ideal but all things end under heaven, and if temporality is held to be invalidating, then nothing real succeeds.”
Marriage“Customs and convictions change respectable people are the last to know, or to admit, the change, and the ones most offended by fresh reflections of the facts in the mirror of art.”
Art“The inner spaces that a good story lets us enter are the old apartments of religion.”
Religion“Religion enables us to ignore nothingness and get on with the jobs of life.”
Religion“Government is either organized benevolence or organized madness its peculiar magnitude permits no shading.”
Government“The essential support and encouragement comes from within, arising out of the mad notion that your society needs to know what only you can tell it.”
Society“We are most alive when we're in love.”
Love“Most of American life consists of driving somewhere and then returning home, wondering why the hell you went.”
Home“Truth should not be forced it should simply manifest itself, like a woman who has in her privacy reflected and coolly decided to bestow herself upon a certain man.”
Truth“Now that I am sixty, I see why the idea of elder wisdom has passed from currency.”
Wisdom“I love my government not least for the extent to which it leaves me alone.”
Alone“Writing criticism is to writing fiction and poetry as hugging the shore is to sailing in the open sea.”
Poetry“A leader is one who, out of madness or goodness, volunteers to take upon himself the woe of the people. There are few men so foolish, hence the erratic quality of leadership in the world.”
Leadership“Golf appeals to the idiot in us and the child. Just how childlike golf players become is proven by their frequent inability to count past five.”
Sports“Every marriage tends to consist of an aristocrat and a peasant. Of a teacher and a learner.”
Marriage