Jean de la Bruyere

Jean de la Bruyere

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Jean de la Bruyere is a French philosopher and moralist whose words have traveled far beyond their original audience. Known for his satire, their words carry the weight of lived experience. Browse 38 quotes by Jean de la Bruyere that cover ground from Alone, Death, Fear, Truth, and Society. Readers often gravitate to this one: "The exact contrary of what is generally believed is often the truth."

“At the beginning and at the end of love, the two lovers are embarrassed to find themselves alone.”

— Jean de la Bruyere

Alone

All Quotes by Jean de la Bruyere

“Grief at the absence of a loved one is happiness compared to life with a person one hates.”

— Jean de la Bruyere

Happiness

“We should keep silent about those in power to speak well of them almost implies flattery to speak ill of them while they are alive is dangerous, and when they are dead is cowardly.”

— Jean de la Bruyere

Power

“Love and friendship exclude each other.”

— Jean de la Bruyere

Friendship

“They that have lived a single day have lived an age.”

— Jean de la Bruyere

Age

“The regeneration of society is the regeneration of society by individual education.”

— Jean de la Bruyere

Education

“There are only three events in a man's life birth, life, and death he is not conscious of being born, he dies in pain, and he forgets to live.”

— Jean de la Bruyere

Death

“It is a sad thing when men have neither the wit to speak well nor the judgment to hold their tongues.”

— Jean de la Bruyere

Men

“We can recognize the dawn and the decline of love by the uneasiness we feel when alone together.”

— Jean de la Bruyere

Alone

“Man has but three events in his life: to be born, to live, and to die. He is not conscious of his birth, he suffers at his death and he forgets to live.”

— Jean de la Bruyere

Death

“All men's misfortunes spring from their hatred of being alone.”

— Jean de la Bruyere

Alone

“Children have neither a past nor a future. Thus they enjoy the present, which seldom happens to us.”

— Jean de la Bruyere

Future

“There is no road too long to the man who advances deliberately and without undue haste there are no honors too distant to the man who prepares himself for them with patience.”

— Jean de la Bruyere

Patience

“The passion of hatred is so long lived and so obstinate a malady that the surest sign of death in a sick person is their desire for reconciliation.”

— Jean de la Bruyere

Death

“It is boorish to live ungraciously: the giving is the hardest part what does it cost to add a smile?”

— Jean de la Bruyere

Smile

“If some persons died, and others did not die, death would be a terrible affliction.”

— Jean de la Bruyere

Death

“At the beginning and at the end of love, the two lovers are embarrassed to find themselves alone.”

— Jean de la Bruyere

Alone

“There are certain things in which mediocrity is not to be endured, such as poetry, music, painting, public speaking.”

— Jean de la Bruyere

Music

“We perceive when love begins and when it declines by our embarrassment when alone together.”

— Jean de la Bruyere

Alone

“Time makes friendship stronger, but love weaker.”

— Jean de la Bruyere

Friendship

“Marriage, it seems, confines every man to his proper rank.”

— Jean de la Bruyere

Marriage