“What looks absolutely fabulous in rehearsal can fall flat in front of an audience. The audience dictates what you do or don't change.”
Change“To work all the time is to be incredibly lucky.”
Work“What looks absolutely fabulous in rehearsal can fall flat in front of an audience. The audience dictates what you do or don't change.”
Change“When I write stuff and I help cast it, I turn away good people all the time. I may turn them down because this one's too tall and that one doesn't have a high enough voice or this one looks to old to match up with that one - there's a billion reasons not to hire somebody.”
Time“Beware of anyone who says they know. Trust me, they don't, or they wouldn't have to say they did.”
Trust“I actually pray everyday, but I don't believe in God.”
God“And I believe that you never be limited in what you do, so I like to do movies, I like to do television.”
Movies“Never be bullied into silence. Never allow yourself to be made a victim. Accept no one's definition of your life define yourself.”
Life“Movies are all about plot. Theater, even if it's story heavy, it's about ideas.”
Movies“To work all the time is to be incredibly lucky.”
Work“I do believe we're all connected. I do believe in positive energy. I do believe in the power of prayer. I do believe in putting good out into the world. And I believe in taking care of each other.”
Good“You know, I always got offered other stuff. Not the romantic leads, obviously. But very often it's a role that's underwritten, where the character has no personality at all. And they need a character actor who can fill it in.”
Romantic“Also, if you want to reach people, theatre is not always the best way to do it.”
Best“The great thing about suicide is that it's not one of those things you have to do now or you lose your chance. I mean, you can always do it later.”
Great“My father was brought up in an orphanage in the Catskills. He was a factory worker. And because his family wasn't there for him, family was everything. We could disagree inside the house, but outside the house it was us against the world. So when I became a drag actor, he looked sideways but said okay.”
Family“Art has the power to transform, to illuminate, to educate, inspire and motivate.”
Art“In Torch Song, I did that character almost non-stop from 1978 until I made the movie in 1987. Then I had some failure, which also colors how you react to doing other things.”
Failure“Theater has to resonate in your heart in a way that movies don't.”
Movies“I got a lovely check today from being a writer that I earned by sitting at home. That's rewarding.”
Home“Time will tell us what we did and didn't do.”
Time“My play Safe Sex was picked apart because critics thought it was untrue. It was a play in which no one had AIDS, but the characters talked about how it was going to change their lives.”
Change“I burned out on AIDS and did no AIDS work for a couple of years. I was so angry that people were still getting this disease that nobody can give you - you have to go out and get it!”
Work