Doris Lessing

Doris Lessing

32 quotes

Doris Lessing, a British novelist, is widely remembered for insights that continue to resonate with readers everywhere. The range of their thinking — from Women to Learning — speaks to an intellectual restlessness that shows in every quote. 36 of Doris Lessing's sharpest quotes live here, spanning themes of Women, Learning, War, Society, and Truth. A favorite of many readers: "Our society is dependent on some precarious mechanisms, and they are very dicey. They can easily collapse."

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“All my friends' mothers were appalling women.”

— Doris Lessing

Women

All Quotes by Doris Lessing

“There was a time when young people respected learning and literature and now they don't.”

— Doris Lessing

Learning

“For the last third of life there remains only work. It alone is always stimulating, rejuvenating, exciting and satisfying.”

— Doris Lessing

Alone

“I hate Iran. I hate the Iranian government. It's a cruel and evil government.”

— Doris Lessing

Government

“I don't know much about creative writing programs. But they're not telling the truth if they don't teach, one, that writing is hard work, and, two, that you have to give up a great deal of life, your personal life, to be a writer.”

— Doris Lessing

Truth

“What really fascinates me is this need that is so strong now that if you read a work of the imagination you instantly have to say, 'Oh, what this really is is so-and-so,' reducing it to a simple formula.”

— Doris Lessing

Imagination

“That is what learning is. You suddenly understand something you've understood all your life, but in a new way.”

— Doris Lessing

Learning

“I think a lot of romanticizing has gone on with the women's movement.”

— Doris Lessing

Women

“Men are restless, adventurous. Women are conservative - despite what current ideology says.”

— Doris Lessing

Women

“All my friends' mothers were appalling women.”

— Doris Lessing

Women

“I wanted to write about my mother as she should have been if she had not been messed up by World War I.”

— Doris Lessing

War

“When there's a war, people get married.”

— Doris Lessing

War

“I do not think that marriage is one of my talents. I've been much happier unmarried than married.”

— Doris Lessing

Marriage

“What the feminists want of me is something they haven't examined because it comes from religion. They want me to bear witness.”

— Doris Lessing

Religion

“When you're young you think that you're going to sail into a lovely lake of quietude and peace. This is profoundly untrue.”

— Doris Lessing

Peace

“It is terrible to destroy a person's picture of himself in the interests of truth or some other abstraction.”

— Doris Lessing

Truth

“Trust no friend without faults, and love a woman, but no angel.”

— Doris Lessing

Trust

“There is only one real sin and that is to persuade oneself that the second best is anything but second best.”

— Doris Lessing

Best

“I think kids ought to travel. I think it's very good to carry kids around. It's good for them. Of course it's tough on the parents.”

— Doris Lessing

Travel

“Sometimes I think what I write is funny in its quiet way.”

— Doris Lessing

Funny

“We use our parents like recurring dreams, to be entered into when needed.”

— Doris Lessing

Dreams