Doris Lessing

Doris Lessing

32 quotes

Doris Lessing, a British novelist, is widely remembered for insights that continue to resonate with readers everywhere. The range of their thinking — from Women to Learning — speaks to an intellectual restlessness that shows in every quote. 36 of Doris Lessing's sharpest quotes live here, spanning themes of Women, Learning, War, Society, and Truth. A favorite of many readers: "Our society is dependent on some precarious mechanisms, and they are very dicey. They can easily collapse."

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“There's an unconscious bias in our society: girls are wonderful boys are terrible. And to be a boy, or young man, growing up, having to listen to all this, it must be painful.”

— Doris Lessing

Society

All Quotes by Doris Lessing

“When there's a war, people get married.”

— Doris Lessing

War

“I hate Iran. I hate the Iranian government. It's a cruel and evil government.”

— Doris Lessing

Government

“I don't know much about creative writing programs. But they're not telling the truth if they don't teach, one, that writing is hard work, and, two, that you have to give up a great deal of life, your personal life, to be a writer.”

— Doris Lessing

Truth

“I wanted to highlight that whole dreadful process in book publishing that 'nothing succeeds like success.'”

— Doris Lessing

Success

“September 11 was terrible but, if one goes back over the history of the IRA, what happened to the Americans wasn't that terrible.”

— Doris Lessing

History

“It's lovely to have money to give away - that's the bonus of winning the Nobel.”

— Doris Lessing

Money

“There was a time when young people respected learning and literature and now they don't.”

— Doris Lessing

Learning

“Trust no friend without faults, and love a woman, but no angel.”

— Doris Lessing

Trust

“What society doesn't realize is that in the past, ordinary people respected learning. They respected books, and they don't now, or not very much. That whole respect for serious literature and learning has disappeared.”

— Doris Lessing

Learning

“I wanted to write about my mother as she should have been if she had not been messed up by World War I.”

— Doris Lessing

War

“It is terrible to destroy a person's picture of himself in the interests of truth or some other abstraction.”

— Doris Lessing

Truth

“My father was in the First World War.”

— Doris Lessing

War

“We use our parents like recurring dreams, to be entered into when needed.”

— Doris Lessing

Dreams

“There's an unconscious bias in our society: girls are wonderful boys are terrible. And to be a boy, or young man, growing up, having to listen to all this, it must be painful.”

— Doris Lessing

Society

“Men are restless, adventurous. Women are conservative - despite what current ideology says.”

— Doris Lessing

Women

“What the feminists want of me is something they haven't examined because it comes from religion. They want me to bear witness.”

— Doris Lessing

Religion

“For the last third of life there remains only work. It alone is always stimulating, rejuvenating, exciting and satisfying.”

— Doris Lessing

Alone

“Our society is dependent on some precarious mechanisms, and they are very dicey. They can easily collapse.”

— Doris Lessing

Society

“I do not think that marriage is one of my talents. I've been much happier unmarried than married.”

— Doris Lessing

Marriage

“Space or science fiction has become a dialect for our time.”

— Doris Lessing

Science