“But the true feminist deals out of a lesbian consciousness whether or not she ever sleeps with women.”
Women“Black women are programmed to define ourselves within this male attention and to compete with each other for it rather than to recognize and move upon our common interests.”
Women“But the true feminist deals out of a lesbian consciousness whether or not she ever sleeps with women.”
Women“It's a struggle but that's why we exist, so that another generation of Lesbians of color will not have to invent themselves, or their history, all over again.”
History“When we create out of our experiences, as feminists of color, women of color, we have to develop those structures that will present and circulate our culture.”
Women“There's always someone asking you to underline one piece of yourself - whether it's Black, woman, mother, dyke, teacher, etc. - because that's the piece that they need to key in to. They want to dismiss everything else.”
Teacher“In our work and in our living, we must recognize that difference is a reason for celebration and growth, rather than a reason for destruction.”
Work“Black women sharing close ties with each other, politically or emotionally, are not the enemies of Black men.”
Women“In discussions around the hiring and firing of Black faculty at universities, the charge is frequently heard that Black women are more easily hired than are Black men.”
Women“Art is not living. It is the use of living.”
Art“Only by learning to live in harmony with your contradictions can you keep it all afloat.”
Learning“I write for those women who do not speak, for those who do not have a voice because they were so terrified, because we are taught to respect fear more than ourselves. We've been taught that silence would save us, but it won't.”
Fear“When I use my strength in the service of my vision it makes no difference whether or not I am afraid.”
Strength“I would like to do another piece of fiction dealing with a number of issues: Lesbian parenting, the 1960's, and interracial relationships in the Lesbian and Gay community.”
Parenting“The learning process is something you can incite, literally incite, like a riot.”
Learning“But, on the other hand, I get bored with racism too and recognize that there are still many things to be said about a Black person and a White person loving each other in a racist society.”
Society“I am deliberate and afraid of nothing.”
Inspirational“When I dare to be powerful - to use my strength in the service of my vision, then it becomes less and less important whether I am afraid.”
Strength“Black women are programmed to define ourselves within this male attention and to compete with each other for it rather than to recognize and move upon our common interests.”
Women“I can't really define it in sexual terms alone although our sexuality is so energizing why not enjoy it too?”
Alone“We have to consciously study how to be tender with each other until it becomes a habit because what was native has been stolen from us, the love of Black women for each other.”
Women“I remember how being young and black and gay and lonely felt. A lot of it was fine, feeling I had the truth and the light and the key, but a lot of it was purely hell.”
Truth